Spain

Apetecer

To feel like, to fancy — Spain's go-to verb for wanting something in the moment.

Related lesson: The Five Verbs Natives Use Constantly.

Hear it in context

  • ¿Te apetece un café?

    Do you fancy a coffee?

  • No me apetece nada salir hoy, estoy agotada.

    I really don't feel like going out today, I'm exhausted.

  • ¿Os apetece que cenemos fuera el viernes?

    Do you guys feel like eating out on Friday?

  • Me apetece muchísimo ver esa película.

    I really want to see that film.

What It Actually Means

Apetecer expresses wanting something right now, in the moment — a craving, a mood, a whim. It’s how people in Spain make and respond to plans all day long: “¿Te apetece…?” is the standard friendly invitation, softer and more natural than “¿Quieres…?”, which can sound like a transaction.

The Rule That Matters

Apetecer works exactly like gustar — backwards, from an English point of view. The thing you fancy is the grammatical subject; you are the indirect object:

  • “Me apetece una caña.” — I fancy a beer. (Literally: a beer appeals to me.)
  • “¿Te apetecen unas tapas?” — plural noun, plural verb: apetecen.
  • “Me apetece dormir.” — with an infinitive, always singular.

Where Textbooks Get It Wrong

Textbooks lean on tener ganas de for “to feel like”, and that’s fine — but in Spain, apetecer is the everyday default, especially in questions. Note also that this is a distinctly Peninsular preference: in much of Latin America apetecer sounds bookish, and people use provocar or antojarse instead.

Common Pitfall

Don’t conjugate it like a normal verb: “yo apetezco un café” is a real utterance grammatically, but it means “I am appetizing” territory — natives will smile. Keep yourself in the me/te/le slot: “me apetece un café.”

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